I'm a first time poster. I've always believed in ghosts and the possibility of communicating with the dead, but never had a direct experience myself, I'm still not sure if I've had one ;/ I'm 23, and my best friend, also 23, tragically passed away from Cystic Fibrosis in March of this year. I'm devastated and still feel I have not moved on at all. I have had two seperste dreams in which they feel so real I have been sure she was actually present. In both dreams, I say how happy I am she is alive again, and she tells me that I need to understand she is only in my dream and that's how we will communicate. I tell her I don't believe her, and point out I can touch her and smell her perfume, so how could it be a dream? I always wake up extremely upset but with a sense of calm, almost as if she is trying to calm me down. Then last night, I woke up at 1am, sitting up in bed to loud clicking sounds. Instead of being alarmed, my mind immediately thought 'it's fine, it's just Sarah' and I went back to sleep happy.
These things may be nothing but the manifestation of grief, but I was considering going to a reputable medium and if anyone thinks she really is trying to stay in contact with me, that may sway my decison.